legacy

My mom and I were talking about the legacies yesterday. Simply put, how we want to be remembered when we leave this earth. It became very apparent it isn't about stuff or things - it isn't about jewelry or books or furniture. It seems these mostly become a huge job for those left behind. So, we decided it's truly about how you live; how you treat those you love the most. It's about faith and grace and dignity -- only memories truly remain.

When I miss my brother, Elke and Pippa I use this amazing lotion they gave me. When my grandma is struggling I wear the necklace she loved from her 'Ray' and when my friend Kimmy is having a rough time, I slip on that amazing silver band she gave me for my birthday -- and I do this because these folks mean something to me. We crossed paths and they are dear to me.

So I'm thinking I'll say 'yes' a little more often, give my kids my full attention rather than fold laundry and make that one more call. The good news is we get many chances everyday to create our legacies - a legacy of kindness, fellowship, joy and love - and for that I'm grateful.